Single mom dating a man with no children
Your kids will resent it and may even end up holding a grudge against him. If your presence at the game would mean the world to your child, find an alternate time to be with your boyfriend. If you've taken it slow and developed the relationship over time, breaking up can be hard for both you and your children. Sit down with your kids, explain the situation, and listen to their concerns.
Like maybe when they are spending the weekend with their Dad or are away on a camping trip. And give them and yourself time to heal before jumping back into the dating pool.
Fortunetly my ex is very involved with our children therefore in my eyes there should not be a problem but I want my new guy to understand this.
I want to know what to do because I really do like him and I think we could be good together if we could find a way to overcome this issue.
It's fine to talk about your kids, but keep it to a minimum. It's a good idea to keep your dates private until things start to get serious.
Passion gets confused with love and it's easy to get swept away in a relationship that might ultimately be wrong for you. A new relationship can feel like a breath of fresh air and it's easy to want the relationship to develop at a fast pace.
If your new man isn't willing to wait, then he will have little patience for anything else. Give yourself time to really get to know this new man.
I just want a chance with him to see if it can work out. ☹️ If you've already talked to him about this issue, there's not too much you can do about it. Leave a message for him and see what happens but if someone's ready, they're not ready.
He's not in that stage of his life(and for some guys, it'll never happen) where he's ready to handle 3 kids. I am in the same situation idk what to do he recently told me i need my space.